If you’re looking for engaging sensory play in Brighton and Hove that was actually built for neurodiverse children, Fidget and Spin runs weekly stay-and-play sessions and SEN-friendly birthday parties across three sensory zones, with trained staff, quiet spaces, and communication supports including AAC and PECS.

Quick facts:

  • Ages 1–6 for weekly sessions; ages 1–7 for birthday parties
  • Three zones: Wiggle & Bounce (movement), Squish & Squeeze (tactile), Snuggle & Chill (low-stim cosy)
  • Child-led throughout; no rigid schedules
  • Concession spots available via Pay-It-Forward at checkout
  • Taster sessions available before you commit
  • Book at Fidgetandspin

Key takeaways

SEN-friendly sensory play works best when it offers structured choice across movement, tactile, and low-stim zones, with trained staff and a clear quiet space.

Point Details
Three-zone structure Wiggle & Bounce, Squish & Squeeze, and Snuggle & Chill cover the main sensory needs.
Child-led, less is more Fewer simultaneous inputs lower overload risk; no rigid schedules.
Staff training matters Look for autism, ADHD, PDA, AAC/PECS, allergy, and de-escalation training.
Try before you commit Taster sessions reduce first-visit anxiety and help families decide.
Fidget and Spin Weekly sessions (ages 1–6) and birthday parties (ages 1–7) in Brighton, Hove and Sussex, from £220.

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Why we built this: a note from Caitlin

I’ve left soft play in tears. Not Remy. Me. Standing there while another parent shot us a look because he’d bolted for the exit again, hands over his ears, completely done. That was the moment I stopped pretending mainstream groups were “fine with a bit of adjustment.”

Anthony and I built Fidget and Spin because we couldn’t find what Remy needed. Not a group that tolerated his processing differences. A space genuinely designed around them. The three-zone layout came directly from that: one zone for big movement when he needed to discharge, one for tactile input when he needed grounding, one quiet corner when everything got too loud. Sensory Trust guidance backs this up, recommending zoning and spatial landmarks so children can choose their own level of stimulation rather than being forced into one kind of play.

Sense’s play toolkit is blunt about it: over-stimulating environments and rigid instructions create barriers. Their “less is more” principle shaped how we run every session. We also drew on the Brighton & Hove SEND Local Offer when thinking about reasonable adjustments, and the Sensory play best practices we’ve published reflect what we’ve learned since.

Hands exploring tactile sensory play materials

Book a session or SEN-friendly birthday party with Fidget and Spin

Fidget and Spin

Weekly sessions run for children aged 1–6, with small group sizes, low staff-to-child ratios, and all three sensory zones set up and ready. Play Wales guidance highlights acoustic dampening and quiet spaces as practical necessities, not extras. Snuggle & Chill has both. Staff hold SEN awareness training covering autism, ADHD, PDA, AAC/PECS communication, allergy protocols, and de-escalation.

Birthday parties run for ages 1–7 across Brighton, Hove and wider Sussex. Three packages: The Wee One (£220), The Big One (£320), and The Whole Shebang (£530). Private hire, flexible timing, and a quiet room are included. Full details at Fidgetandspin.

Taster sessions are available if you want to try before booking a full party or membership. Deposits, cancellation terms, and the Pay-It-Forward concession model are all listed at checkout. No hidden costs.

Pro Tip: Pack a small bag of familiar comfort items and show your child a visual schedule of the session beforehand. First visits go more smoothly when the sequence isn’t a surprise.

Book a session or SEN-friendly birthday party with Fidget and Spin — overview diagram

Questions to ask before you book

  1. Are there at least three distinct sensory zones, including a quiet low-stim space?
  2. What SEN training do staff hold, and what is the child-to-staff ratio?
  3. How are allergies and medical needs recorded and managed on the day?
  4. Is the session child-led, or does it follow a rigid group timetable?
  5. Is a taster or trial session available before full commitment?
  6. What is the cancellation and refund policy?
  7. How do you get there? Check transport links and parking before the day.

Red flags: groups larger than the venue can comfortably hold, no visible quiet space, vague answers on allergy procedure, and no flexibility on timing or format.

Pay-It-Forward concession spots mean cost doesn’t have to be the reason you don’t try a session.

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FAQ

What age range do Fidget and Spin sessions cover?

Weekly sensory stay-and-play sessions are for children aged 1–6. Birthday parties are available for ages 1–7 across Brighton, Hove and wider Sussex.

Can I try a session before booking a party or membership?

Yes. Fidget and Spin offers taster sessions so families can see how their child responds before committing to a full package or membership.

What makes a sensory session genuinely SEN-friendly?

Three distinct zones (movement, tactile, quiet/low-stim), child-led structure, trained staff, clear allergy protocols, and a visible quiet space. Sense’s toolkit and Sensory Trust guidance both identify these as the core features.

Is there financial support if I can’t afford the full session price?

Fidget and Spin’s Pay-It-Forward model allows other families to donate concession spots at checkout, making sessions accessible regardless of budget.

How do I get to Fidget and Spin from across Sussex?

Session location and transport details are listed on the how our sessions work page. Check before your first visit, especially if you’re travelling from outside Brighton and Hove.